Reality. It is a strange thing isn’t it?

It is something that I have mentioned several times throughout this blog, not least of all in my post “Tugging On The Strand That Unravels Reality – Dealing With The Past”.
In that post I mentioned that Einstein stated that, ““Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” and went onto say that with some mental illnesses sometimes there can be more than one reality – the real reality and the one that you are perceiving at the time.
Of course ideally you want the two to be the one and certainly being real and keeping it real is something that I try to achieve within this blog.
So it is both humbling and touching when someone awards you a reality based award such as the “Reality Blog Award.”

And for this I have Carolyn over at “The Hurt Healer” to thank. Because having been nominated herself for this award she very kindly nominated this blog for one also. And (in line with the nomination requirements) you can find that post here.
So thank you Carolyn, I know I have already thanked you in my response to your comment notifying me of your nomination of this blog, but I wanted to publicly thank you here also.

So what are the award’s requirements?
Well according to Carolyn’s post they are as follows…
- Visit and thank the blogger who nominated you - Check √
- Acknowledge that blogger on your blog and link back to them – Check (See above) √
- Answer the 5 questions presented – Check (See Below) √
- Nominate up to 20 blogs for the award and notify them on their blogs - Check (See Below) √
- Copy and paste the award on your blog somewhere - Check (See Margin) √
So here are those five questions and my answers…
- If you could change one thing what would you change? I’d change the way we see ourselves and each other and especially those of us who suffer from poor mental health and mental illness. The stigma attached to mental health and mental illness is still so tragic and sadly we often apply it to ourselves.
- If you could repeat an age, what would it be? It’s a hard one isn’t it? I am tempted to say my early childhood years as those are the years which I have no memory of, but then I really wouldn’t want to repeat any age. After all, since I was who I was at that age, wouldn’t I simply make the same decisions, wouldn’t those around me make the same decisions in the repeating that I or they did in the original?
- What one thing really scares you? I am not sure anything really scares me that much nowadays. But, giving how my mind can often be, losing my mental capabilities would be right up there if I were to have a fear.
- What is one dream you have not completed, and do you think you’ll be able to complete it? I am not sure there is one, but if there were I would think flying to the States and to Canada and meeting my children and also some fellow bloggers would be one that I am not sure I will ever achieve.
- If you could be someone else for one day, who would it be? LOL I have Dissociative Identity Disorder and Psychosis, I am often someone else, just being me for a day would be a blessing!
So there you have them – the five questions and my answers. Which I think only leaves my nominations to deal with. And this is the part which gives me the greatest pleasure!
The Reality Blog Award stands for…
Real, Energizing, Amazing, Lovely, Inspiring, Touching,Yippee!
And so it is with the greatest of pleasure which I award this award to the following blogs – listed in alphabetical order only. (and the only reason I am not including The Hurt Healer in my list is because Carolyn has already received this award) …
bipolarandbreastless
Infinite Sadness or…Hope
Moonside
Pride In Madness
The Bipolar Dance
So, having now complied with all of the requirements, I would again like to thank Carolyn for her kindness in nominating this blog and to encourage you all to pop over and visit those blogs that I have awarded this award to. They really are well worth the visit!
Congratulations Kevin and thank you for the nomination. As I was reading your answers to the questions I thought to myself that I’d like to answer these myself.
So I better get on and do it. By the way I liked your answers too.
Thanks Cate
You really do deserve it:)
Kind Regards and God bless you.
Kevin.
Kevin, congratulations on receiving the Reality award — you definitely deserve it as well as many other rewards! Thank you so much for nominating me, too. I am greatly honored.
I liked your answers to the questions… especially the last one! Heh. As you know, I have DID also. I don’t switch much anymore — only under considerable stress — but when I do, it brings everything back full force.
I look forward to passing this award on — thanks again!
Hey Anita,
Glad you liked the award and my answers. You deserved the award too.
Hope you are well?
Kind Regards and God bless you.
Kevin
Congrats Kevin!
Thanks Carla,
I really do appreciate it
Hope you are well?
Kind Regards and God bless you.
Kevin
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You deserve this
You do too PIM
You do too.
Kind Regards and God bless you
Kevin
Dear Kevin,
Congratulations to you on receiving what is due you in this award. And thank you for nominating me.
I am very honored and humbled that you would give me this award. I am afraid I have to decline though. I am just keeping my head above water with Christmas and a family crisis involving one of my two remaining relatives, a beloved aunt. I do Christmas in a big way and it always takes its toll on me, both physically and emotionally. I am treading on thin ice and I am just waiting for the crash. A hard time of year even though I do love it. I am tremendously grateful to have my beloved hubby and my life however it is right now. I have many blessings.
I do hope you understand and I am extremely honored that you thought of me for the award however ironic it is, me, with my tenuous grasp on reality.
Thank you, dear, dear Kevin,
God bless you,
Ellen
Hi Ellen,
Please know that I do completely understand and think it is very wise given what you are facing.
And besides who says you have to accept it straight away?
Why not simply shelve it until a time when you are feeling stronger? And then accept it.
The award is yours for whenever you are strong enough as far as I am concerned.
As for the irony in respect of your tenuous grasp on reality sometimes, oh how well I recognize that but then the truth is that having a tenuous grasp on reality is the reality that you and I, and others face sometimes.
So take your time and accept it as and when you are able and feel comfortable doing so is my advice.
Kind Regards and God bless.
Kevin
Thank you, Kevin, for your kind-hearted understanding for which I am grateful!
God bless you and keep you,
Ellen
You are more than welcome Ellen
Congratulations, Kevin!! Every one of those words describe your blog and also describe you, too!!
Thank you so much for passing that award on to me!! You are so very kind to do so!!
My brain is very tired and has been for the last few days, so I know there’s more I want to say but I can’t seem to know what it is. Life has been difficult — family drama and friend drama and everyone has been calling me . . . and calling me . . . and calling me. I don’t mind helping — in fact I enjoy being there for my loved ones. The multitudes of phone calls, however, does prevent me from doing anything else. One friend called me six times in one day — definitely going through a crisis.
So please understand and forgive me for not giving back as much in this comment as I’d normally do. I have received your book from Amazon but, needless to say, with all these pieces of life interfering I haven’t had the opportunity to read it. I haven’t had the opportunity to do much except talk on the phone!!
Take care of yourself & God bless you, my dear friend!! Thank you once again!!
Love,
Kathy
P.S. Carol says, “Hi!!”
Hi Sis,
That really is very sweet of you and please don’t worry about commenting until you are totally ready. I do understand how these things go and am incredibly tired myself.
Love to Sis.
Kevin
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